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The important thing though is that I didn’t – I replied, we chatted for three days before our first date and then we started hanging out consistently.
Less than two years later we’re about to get married and sure, things have escalated rather quickly, as far as societal conventions go, but there’s nothing conventional about our love and our lives.
Good luck with that – you’re probably thinking – and that’s exactly what I thought.
After another period of radio silence, I started using a couple of apps and sites again which only led to further disappointment.
He then texted me that night how we just wanted different things and that I was amazing and deserved better, apologising for not having the guts to tell me face to face.
Too little too late but I appreciated the gesture, for a change.
I hate when people tell you how love will find you when you stop searching and all that zen crap.
The reason is I’m a gay guy in his mid-thirties who was on the verge of giving up hope of finding love in the age of online dating.We all seek out very different things in life and over the years I’ve learnt that the key to finding harmony is about connecting with those who are on the same page as us.Especially with romance and dating, nothing is more fatal than an unfortunate pairing of souls whose ultimate objectives are on diverging paths.We are different on many levels but we had a few important things in common: we were on the same page, we were honest about it and we took the time to get to know each other.This isn’t a fairytale-like story I’m trying to gloat about.